“Be The Person Who Doesn’t SETTLE & Never Has To Again”

SECURE Matchmaking 

BY APPLICATION ONLY

The Only Matchmaking That CLEARS What’s Been IN YOUR WAY.

So You Can Finally Find A Love That’s Your PERFECT Match

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Tired Of Feeling Heart BREAK? Here’s The Love You’ve Been MISSING

You want love to feel easy - but it never does.
You keep choosing the wrong people, or pushing away the right ones.
You repeat old patterns, even when you swore you wouldn’t.

You’re not broken - you were just never shown how.
How to build the kind of love that lasts.
The kind of love that starts inside.

Because love follows love.
And that’s where I come in.

When Love Feels Like WORK, It’s Time For A BRAND NEW Approach

secure matchmaking - YOUR PATHway TO LASTING LOVE

What Is Secure MATCHMAKING™?

Created by Annie Lavin - Relationship Therapist, Master Coach, and EFT Expert. Secure Matchmaking™ is more than just introductions - it’s a guided journey where I don’t leave you to figure it out alone.

Unlike typical matchmaking services, I coach you through the process, addressing the hidden habits that sabotage lasting love.

Because the truth is, over 70% of relationships fail due to insecure relating patterns.

What Secure MATCHMAKING™ DELIVERS

  • ✺ Ends Toxic Patterns

    Uncover your attachment style and break free from relationship patterns that hold you back.

  • ✺ A Regulated Nervous System

    Teaches nervous system tools to prevent emotional spirals before they start.

  • ✺ A Plan For Lasting Love

    Helps you create a secure roadmap & selects partners your nervous system will love.

Want a Relationship That Actually WORKS? ….Start Here

Securely attached people argue less, connect deeper, and build real partnerships - no drama or games.

If you're tired of emotional guesswork and wasting time on mismatched dates, this is the missing piece.

It’s not just about matching - it’s about MASTERING how to ATTRACT and NURTURE real love.

Quit Gambling On Love - Choose A PROVEN PATH Instead

If you want to elevate your life, start with your love life. The right partner doesn’t just fill your time - they change your entire future.

If you’re done with empty dates and tired connections…
If you want a relationship that fuels your joy, steadies your peace, and sharpens your purpose - luck won’t cut it.

You need strategy.
You need a proven system.
You need a guide who cuts through the noise and gets to the real blocks holding you back.

Once you’re accepted into this exclusive program, I’ll lead you on a focused, private, and transformational journey. You’ll gain crystal-clear clarity, unshakable emotional strength, and the skill to attract - and maintain - a partnership that truly matches you.

This is where elite matchmaking meets deep emotional mastery.

Because love follows love - and if you don’t show up, love won’t either. It’s not just about finding the right partner - it’s about becoming the person they can’t resist

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  • Spot blind spots, break old patterns, and move toward secure attachment - so you can lead in love the way you lead in life.

  • Private, flexible meetings - in-person or virtual - tailored to your schedule and location: London, Dubai, or wherever you are.

  • No swiping. No guesswork. Just curated introductions to intelligent, attractive, emotionally available singles with strong values and character.

  • From first date to relationship, I coach you through the nuances - so you don’t fumble the opportunity you’ve been waiting for.

  • I’d worked with two other matchmaking services before this - and left more disillusioned each time. Annie was different. She didn’t just set up dates. She helped me understand the patterns that were keeping me stuck - and what a healthy, secure connection actually looks and feels like. I met someone who sees me and loves me for who I am. That didn’t happen by accident. Annie’s process works.”

    Lauren, 42 | Legal Consultant | London

  • “Annie doesn’t play the numbers game. She gets inside the psychology of your patterns, your desires, and what actually works for you. She paired me with people I never would’ve found on my own - grounded, emotionally mature, and open-hearted. I used to think love was random. Now I know it can be intentional.”

    Priya, 53 | Dublin | Creative Director

  • “I came to Annie because I wanted quality introductions. What I got was so much more. She helped me get clear on what I was actually looking for - and what had been keeping me stuck. Every match felt thoughtful, aligned, and emotionally available. I met someone who truly meets me. I didn’t think that was possible before this.”

    Daniel, 45 | Tech Entrepreneur | London

  • “I was tired of apps, endless texting, and emotionally unavailable people. Annie’s process changed everything. Within weeks I was going on dates with people who actually knew what they wanted - no small talk, no games. The emotional depth and alignment in these matches felt curated just for me. For the first time in years, I feel hopeful about love - and seen for who I am. If you're serious, don't wait.”

    Sophie, 39 | Founder | New York

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Why This ISN’T Like Every Other MATCHMAKING Service.

Where other matchmakers leave you to fend for yourself after the introduction, I stay with you every step of the way.

Research shows that a high percentage of promising matches fail - not because of poor compatibility, but because of unaddressed insecure relating patterns.

That’s where I set you apart. I don’t just deliver exceptional matches - I guide you through the relational process, helping you navigate connection, build trust, and create the kind of secure love that lasts.

This is more than matchmaking. It’s your strategic edge in love.

Private. BESPOKE. By Application ONLY.

I take on only a select few clients each year - because real love demands focus, precision, and commitment.

If you’re done wasting time and ready for curated, aligned introductions that lead to real partnership…
If you want a partner who meets your standards and elevates your life…

Apply now. Because if it hasn’t worked yet, ask yourself - where will you be this time next year? Still waiting, or finally living the love you deserve?

  1. You’re tired of feeling alone in life

  2. You’re afraid you’ve missed out on true love that lasts

  3. You’re not here to chase - you’re here to choose

  4. You value exclusivity, integrity, and expert guidance

  5. You’re too smart to waste time on ‘situationships’ or dead-end dynamics

  6. You crave not just connection, but a deep, lasting partnership

This Is FOR YOU If

WHO SHOULD APPLY?

Next Intake CLOSES:

Sun 31st Aug 2025

SECURE Investment Guarantee

If You’re Not 100% Happy - Full Refund Available*

TERMS & CONDITIONS APPLY*

We stand behind the power of this programme. If you fully show up and don’t feel aligned within the first 30 days, we offer a full refund - no drama, no hard feelings.

Show up. Do the work. And if it’s not the right fit -we’ll honour that.

You’ve Done The Work - Now Let Love Meet You

You don’t have to do this alone.
You don’t have to guess anymore.
You just have to say yes to love - with intention.

Let’s stop leaving love to chance and start building it on purpose.

FAQ

  • This is for high-integrity individuals who are emotionally aware, open to doing the inner work, and serious about building a secure, lasting relationship.

  • This process blends therapeutic transformation with matchmaking. You don’t just get paired - you evolve and are matched with someone who has done the same.

  • Yes. We match across age, gender, and orientation. If you’re aligned with secure love and open to doing the work, you are welcome here.

  • Due to the intensive and highly personalized process, refunds and cancellations are not offered after enrollment.

  • You’ll receive expert bespoke, one-to-one relational coaching to help you identify and shift patterns that have been blocking you from secure love.

What Kind Of Love Are You Here For?