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Love Guide

For Singles & Couples READY To Build SECURE, LASTING Love

ACCREDITED RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST, INTERNATIONAL MASTER COACH & MATCHMAKER

Create & Maintain FULFILLING Relationships - In WEEKS, Not Years.

Our PROVEN, Guaranteed, Secure Relationship Method™ Helps Couples & Singles, Ready For REAL CHANGE.

STRUGGLING In Love? It’s Not You - It’s Your Nervous System PROTECTING You.

Your gut reactions, old patterns, and wild emotions? They’re just your brain trying to keep you safe. Problem is, protection doesn’t build connection - and that’s what love really needs. Ready to cut through the noise and get crystal clear? Take my free quiz. Discover what’s really blocking your love, and claim your clear, proven plan to lasting love.

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Freedom From Relationship STRESS Starts Here

I’m Annie Lavin - Relationship Therapist, Master Coach, and Matchmaker. I help people to stop wasting time, energy, and emotion on relationship patterns that aren’t working - and finally build the kind of love, trust, and connection that makes everything else in life easier.

If you’re:
– Single and tired of dead-end dates and wondering if real love even exists anymore,
– In a relationship that feels heavy, distant, or harder than it should be,
– Or leading a team of people who can’t seem to connect, communicate, or collaborate.

Then you already know this truth: relationship stress spills into everything. Your focus. Your energy. Your confidence. Your results. And waiting around for things to “just get better” won’t fix it.

My Secure Relationship Method™ isn’t generic coaching or traditional talk therapy. It’s a clear, proven system that finds what’s not working - and solves for it. We cut the guesswork. Solve the real problem. Fast.

Because when your relationships work, your whole life flows. No more confusion. No more second-guessing. No more wasting time. If you’re ready for clarity, connection, and real freedom - I’d love to work with you.

Why The SECURE Relationship Method™ Is DIFFERENT

  • ✺ Integrative Expertise

    With my qualifications as an accredited psychotherapist and master coach, your transformation is in expert hands. I uniquely integrate therapeutic knowledge and coaching for a holistic approach, enabling significant breakthroughs regardless of how you choose to work with me.

  • ✺ Science-Backed Success

    Experience a method that’s trauma-informed, rooted in cutting-edge neuroscience and emotional resilience. My evidence-based approach empowers you to navigate challenges and reduce stress, ensuring every step is grounded in scientific research and tailored to your specific needs.

  • ✺ Structured Support

    Regardless of how you choose to work with me, you'll receive solution-focused, action-oriented strategies designed to deliver the lasting change you're seeking. With a clear, step-by-step plan, you'll experience consistent progress and transformation every step of the way.

  • “We called it tension but really it was years of resentment, no intimacy, and nothing left to say. We’d done therapy (twice), read the books, tried to ‘date each other again.’ Nothing shifted - until Annie. She didn’t waste time with theory. She got in, named the patterns we couldn’t see, and gave us the tools to finally change them. Within weeks, the tension was gone. We were calm. Clear. Intimate again - not just physically, but emotionally."

    Mai & Dougie | Dubai

  • Wellbeing Manager. I didn’t realize how much my personal relationship stress was bleeding into my leadership until Annie’s sessions. Her approach is practical yet deeply insightful. The tools she shares helped me hold space for myself and my team in a way that’s sustainable and powerful. This isn’t therapy diluted for business - it’s relationship mastery that makes a tangible difference."

    Maya, 55 | Dubai

  • “No other matchmaker had ever gone this deep. Annie helped me realise I wasn’t actually choosing partners from my values - I was choosing from fear. Through her guidance, I finally saw what was keeping me from real intimacy. I dated from a new place - one rooted in security, not scarcity - and met someone I never would’ve attracted before. I feel like myself in this relationship. That’s the real win.”

    Rachel 53 | London

How Would YOU LIKE To CONNECT With ME?

Couples Coaching

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Secure Love Matchmaking

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Corporate Consultancy

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Choosing Love Podcast

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Choosing Love Blog

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THE SECURE RELATIONSHIP METHOD

For Couples

Tried Therapy & Still Feel Stuck? You’ve talked it through. You’ve tried to fix it on your own.
But nothing seems to shift - not in a lasting way. The Secure Relationship Method™ is different. It’s not talk for the sake of talking. It’s targeted, therapist-designed, and results-driven.
We don’t just surface the issues - we solve for them. Fast. Because when your relationship works, everything else in life flows better. Book your FREE 15-minute consultation and let’s find out if this is the right fit for your relationship.

The LATEST ON The Pod

Welcome to Choosing Love, the podcast that unlocks the secrets to building secure, fulfilling relationships and living a life of purpose. Join Annie as she interviews inspiring people from around the world, sharing their journeys through love, loss, heartbreak, and triumph.

Whether you're single, dating, navigating family or work dynamics, or pursuing your dreams, Choosing Love offers actionable insights and practical strategies to help you create deep, meaningful connections. Tune in to transform your relationships - and your life - through lasting, empowered love.

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